
Recently I asked the GymJunkies newsletter subscribers what their BIGGEST problem was with getting in shape. The overwhelming responses came down to three things:
1. Not having enough time to work out.
2. Not knowing what to eat.
3. Not having motivation to work out.
These answers only scratch the surface. To be blunt, the three responses above are complete bullshit.
Not a single workout I gave in the 31 Day Challenge fat loss programs takes longer than 15 minutes. And let’s not forget about my post on 8 workouts you can do in 8 minutes or less. And if you’re really pressed for time I have one word for you: Tabata. A Tabata interval is 20 seconds of work followed by 10 seconds of rest repeated 8 times with the same exercise. For all of you without your calculator handy, a Tabata interval takes only 4 minutes total time.
Try it with bodyweight squats, skipping rope, or burpees and try to tell me you didn’t have a workout. Not having enough time to workout is NOT the problem (how you use your time is!)
Did you miss my post on my 10 Favorite Foods For Fat Loss? Have you seen one of the first posts to hit GymJunkies, The Easy Fat Loss Plan (with diet)? My friend Mark Sisson provides a ton of free information on healthy eating at marksdailyapple.com. And then there are great resources from Joel Marion and Isabel De Los Rios that I’ve recommended. And yes that’s an affiliate link. Just because I stand a chance to make a buck doesn’t mean I don’t believe in the product. In fact the exact opposite is true. When I recommend a product that is for sale, I am putting my reputation on the line and you can be damn sure what ever is recommended is top quality information.
So between the free and for sale resources I’ve listed (and the magic of Google), not knowing what to eat is NOT the problem.
How’s this for motivation: YOU ARE GOING TO DIE! Seven out of the top 10 killers in the United States are diseases or illnesses that can be prevented or reduced through proper diet and exercise. I’m talking about big scary words like heart disease, cancer, stroke, pulmonary disease, diabetes, kidney disease, and Alzheimer’s.
Screw getting ready for a beach vacation – motivation lies in having the energy and mobility to play with your grandkids someday. If you’re not motivated by having more years in your life and more life in your years, no short term superficial goal like fitting into an article of clothing or hitting the beach is going to sustain your motivation for long. Lack of motivation is NOT the problem.
So what IS the problem? The real problem, the problem no one wants to talk about because they know how much work it takes to overcome, is habit. That’s it. Habit.
It’s not that you don’t have enough time to workout. It’s that you are not in the habit of setting your alarm clock 4 minutes earlier to sneak in a Tabata interval before you start your day.
It’s not that you don’t know what to eat. It’s that you are so accustomed to the way you eat now, changing your diet takes an amount of effort that you are not accustomed to putting forth.
It’s not that you don’t have the motivation. It’s that you are giving up when you are two weeks into an exercise program and the temptation to blow off a workout strikes.
So what can you do? Below are five tips that can help you establish new habits:
1. Measure your performance. I wish I could remember where I read this so I could give credit where credit is due, but I have found the axiom “that which gets measured, improves” to be very true. And let’s be clear on what you should be measuring. I’m not talking about your sets or reps or food intake (although those should also be tracked), I’m talking about measuring the success rate of how many times you complete the new habit you are trying to establish.
Make a simple Excel spreadsheet, hand write a checklist, or if you’re so inclined – use an iPhone app, and keep track of when you do the task you are trying to establish. Evaluate your rate of success weekly and make adjustments as needed to further ingrain the habit.
2. Give it some time. How long does it take to establish a habit? Well, I think that is going to vary from person to person. 30 days is a good initial goal to shoot for. Personally, I like 28 days because it breaks down nice and neatly into four weeks.
What we are looking for here is enough time to get through the initial stage of excitement, the painful middle ground of resistance, and then the home stretch period where willpower is needed less and less as the habit becomes firmly established.
3. Expect the pain and plan accordingly. Change is not easy. If it were, everyone would be the epitome of health and fitness. After the initial buzz of trying something shiny and new, there comes a point on the path of establishing a habit where you want to quit.
And this is exactly the point where you have to be mentally and practically prepared to gut it out. On the mental level, accept that moments of difficulty are inevitable and make a decision to stay the course with iron will. From a practical standpoint, have procedures in place to compensate for when the iron will gets rusty. Maybe that is announcing your new habit to friends, family, or co-workers and using positive peer pressure (or embarrassment) to keep you on course.
Perhaps that means keeping a back-up gym bag with a set of old workout clothes in your car at all times just in case you forget to grab your usual bag as you head out the door for the day. As you plot the course for establishing your new habit, identify where the potential trouble spots will arise and then plan and implement contingencies.
4. Find a trailblazer. So you want to be in the best shape of your life. Or just lose 10 pounds. Or become the next middle weight champ of the octagon. Whatever your training goals, it is highly likely that someone with similar, if not nearly identical, situation has already accomplished what you are seeking. If you are a 30-something white-collar cubicle dweller who wants to train for his first cage fight, someone else has already done it. If you feel stuck in your day job and want to start your own business, someone has already done it.
The “been there done that” thing is good, not bad. It means someone else has blazed the trail. Someone else knows the formula – they hold the recipe to the secret sauce. One of the basic tenets of being successful is to find someone who has already accomplished what you want to do and model what they did. So don’t reinvent the wheel. Follow the footsteps of someone who has come before you and streamline your path to establishing habit.
5. Never, ever quit. I’m a big fan of the “ready, fire, aim” approach. That simply means to get started with some forward momentum, acknowledge that mistakes will happen, and course correct while continually moving toward the goal.
If you are trying to get into the habit of waking up at 6:00am each morning for training, set the alarm clock and go for it! Oh, you hit snooze four times and didn’t get up? Don’t quit, try a new tactic. Place the alarm clock on the other side of the room. Still not getting up? Set two alarm clocks and put one in another room. Still not getting up? Put some financial pressure in the mix and pay for a wake up call service.
Still not getting up? Make arrangements to meet a training partner at the gym that you know you won’t stand up. Still not getting up? Give your seven year old son or spouse authorization and immunity to dump a bucket of cold water on you if you are not out of bed at exactly 6:00am.
Still not getting up? . . . Don’t quit. Get creative, be persistent, and you will find the solution.
Not having enough time to workout, not knowing what to eat, and lack of motivation are symptoms, but they are not the real problem. The real problem is failing to take the time and effort necessary to establish new habits.
I hope this was a refreshing slap across the face for those who needed it
Leave me a comment below and let me know what you thought of this post…
- Vic
P.S. – The 31 Day Challenge Manual has already gotten some great results for people who picked it up the week I released it…. I’m offering a 200% money back guarantee on it as well (how can you beat that?) Check it out here…

Thanks for the post, Vic. Very straightforward. Love it.
Always good to see you comment, Natalee. Thanks!
Vic,
I love your straight forward style, you are absolutely right, it’s not so much time as it is habit and priorities that get in the way. Getting and maintaining a high level of fitness is definitely not easy or, as you said, everyone would be prime fitness model candidates.
I just wrote an article that parallels with what you wrote which I think you’ll find interesting. It is a guide of how to change/adapt your schedule to fit in exercise.
I actually wrote it in honor of my best friend who is doing an Emergency Room residency right now and hardly has time to sleep but still wants to work out and get fit.
http://dynamicworkouts.blogspot.com/
Hope you enjoy it as much as I enjoyed your article
Emergency Room residency is about as packed a schedule as they come. If your friend can find time to exercise, then everyone can. Thanks!
A very creative thinker named Costa wrote a book about how to work on developing better study habits listing 16 specific areas . It basically applies to changing any embedded habit. He has a check list for each one too, so it’s very down to earth, with a score chart to measure progress. I love that site as a teacher, and think it might work well for body weight changes,too. I totally agree that we look for excuses çause it’s hard to admit laziness, and lack of self- discipline. Success to us all, Rosalie
Thanks, Rosalie. Using a checklist is exactly what I’m talking about. I might have to look into this Costa. . .
You are going to die. Best motivator I’ve heard in a long while.
Ditto!
You killled it! Good work man!
Lovin it these days.
-Mike
Great post Vic, you nailed it perfectly. I am currently on Day 20 of my 31 day challenge and you are right about the “habit”. I can’t imagine after 20 days not getting up early for training; Also, on my off days which happen to be Saturdays, it feels weird not getting up and training.
Vic,
You are a f**king legend. I was just about to cry off a training session because my knee has badly swollen up and is sore due to a cruciate tear 8 months ago thats not healing well. Then I got your article on my rss feed and made myself go hit the gym and do some bench press, chin ups, and sit ups, nothing wrong with my upper body.
YOU ARE GOING TO DIE! Thats brilliant, I love your straight up no BS attitude.
Also any tips on ways I can mix up my training with out doing squats/dead lifts/running/jumping on my knee? I was combining your how to get stronger program with some running, but will have to temporarily readjust it for my injury now.
Thanks dude.
It’s been said already, but I’m gonna repeat it: YOU’RE GOING TO DIE!!!!! F’g PERFECT~! The rest of the article is spot on and full of excellent tips and in-your-face truths…but those four words are the cherry on top!
Thanks, Jen! My mentioning death seems to have grabbed the attention of many. But it is so damned true! Most of the killers in the U.S. are strongly influenced (or even a direct result of in the case of Type II diabetes) by life style behaviors.
@Conor,
Same story here. I have a tendon injury in my knee healing up and have been taking off from the workouts and today just said there’s no excuse not to do some upper body and started getting into it again.
I’m gonna start seeing if I’m able to start weights as well if they don’t put too much tension on the tendon.
Awesome post Vic.
-Rafi
Thanks, Rafi. Take care of that knee!
At the risk of sounding like a stuck record – great post again Vic! You do it again and again! Its motivation just when I needed it – I picked up exercising again after a gap of 8 days (due to various reasons). Its the end of the festive season here so time to get back to the routine. I remember how you once told me that we all fall of the wagon sometimes but its up to us how fast we get back on so we can minimise the damage. Well I did’nt fall that hard this time and it has been quite easy to get back on track – thanks to your advice! I feel a lot of freedom from unnecessary stress.
Love the points about the trailblazer and anticipating the pain and planning accordingly.
Once again a superb post. Thanks!
Thanks, Sangita. Always good to see you comment. And good to see you get back on the fitness wagon with a feeling of freedom! Can’t beat that.
Thanks for the a** kick! Going to remember the number one motivational reason!
Yep. Don’t know why we don’t think about reason number one more often. I guess it’s easy to slip into delusions of immortality. But we really do have control over much of our health. Certainly not all – some WILL get cancer or other diseases even with pristine diet and exercise – but why not stack the deck in our favor as best we can and chalk the rest up to fate?
Vic – Great post. I liked the You’re Gonna Die reference, but for me, having recently been supporting a sick friend in the hospital, I find motivation from the fear of living (or languishing, better word) in a state of illness/debilitation. That scares the crap out of me – I cannot imagine not being able to train, to move, to live. And I am thankful for everyday that I can get up early and work my ass off. If anyone out there feels like giving it up, pay a visit to a hospital and see what the results will be, sooner or later.
Thanks Vic. You’re one tuff hombre.
Sue
Sue, thanks for making a great point. It is heartbreaking to see friends and family (anyone) languishing in pain and illness. When I was in college, my best friend was hospitalized with testicular cancer. I visited him every day. And as I sat there in his room (he was often asleep or otherwise unaware of my presence) I couldn’t help but often think. . . goddamn, that could just as easily be me in that bed. It is unfortunate what we take for granted. . .
I really enjoyed the article! When I see seriously disabled people to fight like lions, I know that I have no plausible excuse for not working out!
Hey Vic
Great article, as usual. It all comes down to mind over matter and priorities. You cant deny that a totally healthy lifestyle requires sacrifice? That’s the bit I find the most difficult. I can be perfectly healthy during the week, but come the weekend i want to be out with my mates, drinking and letting my hair down
BTW, half your video’s on the 8 exercises in 8 minutes seem to have disappeared?
Kind Regards
Tusc
I agree, the weekends are often the most challenging times. And moderation can be oh so boring.
And many thanks for letting me know about the videos being down.